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Learn: The Truth About Transsexual Escorts

The word transsexual will often evoke negative thoughts of porn, prostitution and perversion. To the wife of the average blue-collared male – the kind of woman who finds out about me – we are nothing more than a breed of drug addicted, filthy pole smokers.

As a little boy I dreamt of high fashion, haute couture and designer heels. I would sit in mummy’s walk-in, prancing around in her olive green Mary Janes, imagining a life where my lofty gait on a catwalk in Milan would wow crowds of onlookers. The sound of the front door slamming shut would indicate that mum was home; the dream would disintegrate from my grasp as my strut turned to a sprint out of her room.

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I grew up with a mother whose time-warped values were stuck in the 1940’s and a father with a string of affairs that made Hugh Heffner look like the epitome of monogamy – so my conception of relationships and sex were forced upon me. I would watch my sisters be brainwashed into believing that sex was a privilege of marriage, whilst I was coached to fuck anything with a pulse. The complexity in this delightful charade of happy families came when I started associating myself as female. I was raised a boy, but saw myself as a girl being taken under the wing of her philandering father, who taught me that sleeping around was more important than fidelity.

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So now, as a transsexual woman, should my perception of a healthy sex life have changed? To become more accepted as a woman, should I set aside my promiscuous money-making ways in search for ‘the one’? In my world there were plenty of men only too eager to experiment with me and being of this unique gender it’s one of the easiest ways to ensure financial stability when society in many ways will not.

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The ideal pattern for a woman is to meet, date, marry and mother. Thus, by living a life of debauchery, society has a negative view on transsexuals. I, as transsexual woman, am labelled as a pervert – whilst conservative members of society have been revealed as high-profile paedophiles. Maybe to change the way we are perceived, we need to change the way we live.But I see myself as a businesswoman benefiting from giving men what their spouses can’t (or wont). It’s no myth that the greatest way to blow your guys mind is through his prostate – but not many normal, genetic women want to brave that area. It is seen as dirty, complicated and to most cis(gender) women it’s just rather weird. That’s where shemale escorts step in. Female dominatrix have been doing the same for years. We’re simply cashing in on a niche market of sexually curious men.

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See, there’s a gross misconception that if a man likes to have his bum touched, that he must gay. If this were true, it would put me out of business. Men want the ultimate fantasy and we provide the illusion of perfection; everything a woman offers and the one thing she doesn’t. A straight man doesn’t want to sneak off to bend over for a big guy in the dark room of a gay club. He wants to feel like he’s engaging in a sexual encounter with a woman, except on this occasion it’s a woman with that bit extra. This way he is satisfying his visual AND his sexual needs.

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I always say; ‘My dick is my career!’ What I do for men is purely professional. Contrary to the stigma attached to transsexual escorts; transwomen are not interested in tearing family’s apart. Nor do we want mid-week small talk and we definitely won’t call when we need help with a fuse box. I mean, would that barista you paid to make you coffee call you for a chat? We don’t do this because we lack social skills or crave male attention, we’re making the most our assets.

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To be a great escort you have to be able to completely disassociate sex from emotion. And because of this my friends often ask me ‘If you want to be a woman why don’t you stop escorting?’ I don’t remember that scene in pretty woman where Julia Roberts was revealed to have a penis. Escorting as a transsexual doesn’t make me any less of a woman. 80,000 escorts in Britain are genetically female and I don’t see consensually selling sex for money as taking away from their womanhood.

The truth is I don’t escort because it’s all I CAN do. I do it because I’ve made a career out of doing something I love in the most lucrative way.

Words by Jazmin Jagger

AFT is a sex magazine for the passionate, intellectual modern woman. Female sexuality deserves its own voice; we believe that good sex isn't a privilege, it's a right. Follow us on Twitter @AFT_mag and join the conversation #WeComeFirst

  • BoiledCabbage

    A great post by one of the most gorgeous and daring of London’s secret sect of TS escorts…..& no J you are not a pervert, just maybe a little off-piste, but then who wants to be mainstream?

  • Plaything

    Jazmin nails it. But then I would expect nothing less from her. Nothing debauched or perverse in a consensual exploration of fleeting pleasures.

  • Frowning Mango

    I consider myself to be straight but I love transsexuals. What Jazmin says about what attracts straight men to T-girls is exactly right. Wish I was 20 years younger :)

  • Sextat61

    I read this and really enjoyed it. Then I decided to meet Jazmin and spent a wonderful hour in her company. She is gorgeous, sexy, sensual, clearly articulate, and kisses like she invented it! J you are amazing!

  • http://kristypandora.com/gallery/ Kristy Pandora

    As a forner TS sex worker you fail to mention the most vital part. Sexual health and an unregulated system. It is hard to throw statitics because a majority of trans sex workers are not getting tested or going through job placement education programs prior to hitting backpage. Many are unaware of std prevenitive measures and or actual risks, and let us mix in some truth in regards to drug use that directly runs hand in hand that lowers ambition for need to aviod high risk activities. Sex work becomes the only source of finacial security for the majority and it detours many from even getting tested. One infected girl on meth can pull easily 6 grand in a few days at $150 per Jon. Do the math. One girl and how many men. Now are these men then only stopping with her or hiring others as well. See my points. Glorifying sex work in our community in an unregulated environment is not suicide, in my opinion is murder. I would have no issue and agree with this article if there were systems in place to insure regular testing and safety training on prevention. But unless your in Vegas it is not happening. As a forner sex worker I beseech every Jon to request a recent status and every girl to want to provide one.

    • http://kristypandora.com/gallery/ Kristy Pandora

      This is in regards to US. Other places where sex work is regulated I would assume to hold much lower risk.

  • http://kristypandora.com/gallery/ Kristy Pandora

    As a former TS sex worker you fail to mention the most vital part. Sexual health and an unregulated system. It is hard to throw statistics because a majority of trans sex workers are not getting tested or going through job placement education programs prior to hitting backpage. Many are unaware of std preventive measures and or actual risks, and let us mix in some truth in regards to drug use that directly runs hand in hand that lowers ambition for need to avoid high risk activities. Sex work becomes the only source of financial security for the majority and it detours many from even getting tested. One infected girl on meth can pull easily 6 grand in a few days at $150 per Jon. Do the math. One girl and how many men? Now are these men then only stopping with her or hiring others as well? See my points. Glorifying sex work in our community in an unregulated environment is not suicide, in my opinion it is murder. I would have no issue and agree with this article if there were systems in place to insure regular testing and safety training on prevention. But unless your in Vegas it is not happening. As a former sex worker I beseech every Jon to request a recent status and every girl to want to provide one.

    • http://kristypandora.com/gallery/ Kristy Pandora

      Keep in mind my comment is based on unregulated United States environment. I do not know the UK policy on sex work and sexual health regulation.

    • Truth Sets Us Free

      Of course you are a “former TS sex worker”. Of course.

  • ivan

    i think all sex workers should be accepted as ‘normal’ – there is nothing wrong getting sex for money – after all, isn’t that pretty much dating ?

  • Erica Kensho

    “The truth is I don’t escort because it’s all I CAN do. I do it because I’ve made a career out of doing something I love in the most lucrative way.”

    You keep telling yourself that, honey. I’m sure those runways in Paris and Milan aren’t missing you.

  • Alex Beaven

    So true what she has said,that the prostate is the equivalent of a ladies G-spot (although experts still argue whether it really exists in women). However the prostate is very sensitive & how many people have seen a guy getting fingered in the bum in a porn movie while the female or even Transexual Pornstar is giving them a blowjob. All around the anus there are very sensitive nerve endings too. But unfortunately as a child you’re told that’s a dirty disgusting area which it is when not cleaned properly & before religion came along such as Christianity, the Greeks & Roman fucked many people of both sexes in the bum. Transexuals have been around for a few centuries ,although they wore false boobs & of course there were no hormone treatments back then . Many were treated as freaks & sadly still are in some countries. However man has & always will have that curiosity to have sex with a Transgender person. It’s a common misconception that this means they must be gay,but this is so far from the truth as gays don’t fuck Transexuals or Transgenders . Bi-sexuals might,but nearly all guys that do are mostly straight.